AHHHH!!!

so i am home sick from work and thought I would check on a blog or two which got me thinking about mine. I realized I have not posted in over a year so I am sure no one is following but still here I am. So I wanted to change the design of the blog using one of Basic Grey's lovely backgrounds and header, but alas i am so confused that now my blog looks a mess. Help!!! maybe a nap and then I can try again.